Dating Guru’s Mailbag – Office Romance
Monday, September 30th, 2013Here’s another email
from the Dating Guru’s Mailbag
“Dear James. I’m working on a project at work with a lovely lady. We’ve fallen for each other but if we got found out then we’d lose our jobs. However, at Christmas her contract is up so we’ve agreed to keep things as friends until then. It’s driving me mad – what can I do?”!
Thank you very much for your email.
It does sound to me that you are better off keeping things professional for the time being.Otherwise you may cause problems that will stop you being together in the future.
On the plus side, it does sound like you really like each other so if you can wait a little longer you have something amazing
to look forward to. About 50% of couples meet from work or work connections, so it’s perfectly normal.
Your feelings for each other won’t get any less just because you aren’t dating. In fact, they will most probably continue to build right
up until the time you can be truly be together. So a short delay now is only going to make things even better in the future.
It may help if you both have an agreement that you won’t date anyone else during this time, as that will only cause frustration.
Now isn’t the time for jealousy or arguments.
Good luck!
Best Wishes,
James Preece
The Dating Guru
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