A good smile is so important

and can help you get more dates

If you smile then you’ll naturally look friendlier and other people will like you more. It’s vital that you smile lots when you are out on a date or trying to get one.  But do you know why exactly we smile?

The main reason for this is that a smile shows empathy and showing your teeth is a primitive display that you are not a threat.   So if a person gives someone else a genuine warm smile it shows that they are comfortable and interested in being with them.

Not all smiles are created equal and if you aren’t sincere and give out fake smiles then this will soon become obvious to the subconscious mind. A real smile begins with the eyes wrinkling and the lips being pulled back equally. Real smiles also last much longer than fake flashes, so try and hold it.  Don’t go overboard as you’ll come across as mad.  Just keep it relaxed and normal.

You don’t need to have movie star perfect teeth. Studies have shown that teeth don’t need to be overly white to be considered attractive, just clean and natural looking is the most important. If you have bad teeth then it suggests you are lazy and don’t care about your appearance, so definitely work on this if necessary.

For women, a good lipstick can improve a smile by making the teeth stand out and plumping up the lips.

Make sure you have fresh breath too or you’ll blow it no matter how much you smile!

Good luck,

James Preece – The Dating Guru

May was another great month

with some great feedback

We had another very busy month in May.

Here us just a small selection of the emails that we received:

If you have your own please do share it with us: info@singlesolution.com

“I met someone on your dating site, and am no longer single. Feed back : Good”  BH

“I had fun at your evening events” BM

“Met someone and dated for three months, also made a few friends in the process. Good service – would recommend to others!!” JT

“ Events are good” DJ

“Happy with service – worked for me” WM

“Great site and events.” RD

“ I met someone on your dating site, and am no longer single” ML

Best Wishes,

James Preece – The Dating Guru

As Dating Coach for Singlesolution.com

I often get asked about general dating advice

So here are some quick answers to recent dating questions I’ve had.

” Hi James, Isn’t online dating a bit like doing online shopping?  Can’t you enter the criteria of you ideal match and meet them right away?”

While you can certainly enter your wish list and see your “perfect” partner it’s not that simple.  To make things work they have to be interested in you too!   Work out what you have to offer in return.  We all might desire Brad Pitt or Angelina Jolie but you must be realistic.

“Hey.Why do people have such a hard time meeting each other in London?  Aren’t there lots of opportunities to meet other people at parties and with friends?”

After the age of 30, people just don’t have the time, urge or money to go out socialising as much.  Many of our friends will be coupled up so our social circles shrink.  It is more comfortable and “safe” to meet via the Internet but it’s also often a better way to do it if as it’s so private and more intimate.

“Any other tips you can give me to boost  love life apart from online dating?”

Make an effort to be the best “you” possible.  Dress well, have an active and interesting life and above all be happy and positive. Those qualities are sexy and what people are looking for in a partner.

You have to take action if you want any in life. Don’t be afraid to start conversations with everyone you meet – from the postman to the woman in the supermarket.  Start acting like someone who has no trouble getting dates and you’ll soon be lining them up.  Oh, and if you need help with your love life then hire a dating coach like me!